If anything this thread shows that the 10dB boost for audio is not very well understood, and options resulting from such a situation are more likely to add to the confusion, rather then solve any problems.
All I see here is theoretical thoughts, no actual data that something is wrong.
From what I understand, properly mastered multichannel audio should always incorporate that boost, in videos or music, this includes DVD-A and Blu-ray Audio, typical sources for multichannel audio, as it serves a real purpose to be able to have the LFE compete with all the other channels in volume, otherwise the LFE would be too quiet.
Downmixing is a special situation as well, and the 10dB boost is handled differently here to account for the fact that its being downmixed. I would recommend to actually listen how it sounds, if the LFE would be 10dB too loud, that would be an easy situation to hear or measure.