Hello Jim,
I did read the panelforums several times I might say that English is not my native languish and computers are not my friends.
With that said I found out what I did wrong. The IP adress shouldn't be the IP uses for Internet, wich you can find using search for my IP.
The IP adress is the one generated from your router and as I have several gadgets there is different IP's for each one.
If you not a computer "nerd" (sorry folks
) it is very easy to stirring blind on one thing and try to make that work as I did with the public IP adress and not the router.
So at last I did find out how to set it up. and hope my info can help others like me.......if there is any as stupid