The amount of times something like this comes up, it seems like it would be a good option if people could enable clients to sync preferences over to the server.
The ability to sync Library changes to the Server would be awesome indeed, but I suspect that's a complicated architectural change.
It also has potential downsides. I
like that my HTPC is "blocked" from messing up the Library structure and Views. It enables you to easily set the "default", and it is easy for my end-users (spouse and daughter) to "reset" it if they get lost by simply closing and re-opening it.
If Theater View remembered the last-active View like it does directly on the Server, and allowed changes in Standard View, I'd actually have more trouble and want to turn it off.
In that case. In others, it would be mega convenient though, so I'd love some optional way to do it.