Unfortunately, there isn't really a way to control this. All we tell Windows is to update the driver, and it does whatever it does.
Microsoft intentionally doesn't want applications messing with the default audio device, which means they do not even have functions to change the default device, or tell it not to change, or anything.
In practice, most people won't update audio drivers on a weekly basis, and thus never notice any problems with actual audio devices.
We're kinda in a special place here.