Pretty soon, many are going to realize the promise that came with technology was rife with pitfalls which were overlooked, unforeseen, or simply overshadowed in the initial euphoria. People will realize that what they have lost far outweighs any gains that certain technologies have brought.
Pretty soon?? Email was born around 1966, The internet in 1969, the world wide web in 1989, Google was formed in 1995 and its first web presence in 1996. The base elements that provide the functionality (and pitfalls) have been with us for 25-40 years. Id say "pretty soon" has left the building. History has illustrated to the dire extent a society will tolerate breaches in its privacy, security and other pitfalls before it says enough is enough. Id say given the slow creep of awareness it will take another two - four decades (if it happens at all). People love their Facebook overlooking the fact that ever scrap of data they enter into the system is being sold, or stolen for gain
Cameras on every corner, doorbell, traffic light, intersection, etc. Goodbye privacy. Billions and billions stolen or extorted from unsuspecting people and businesses from high tech thieves phishing or deploying ransomware. Goodbye money. Criminals and governments devising new and more sinister ways to use technology to box you in and rip you off, or simply destroy you. Goodbye safety and security. Lives flying by at the speed of light. Goodbye simple life and free time. Complexity mounting exponentially. Goodbye calm and ease and leisure. Internet companies tracking everyone and building dossiers on each person to sell to the highest bidder. Goodbye freedom from a world of sellers constantly peering over your shoulder like an unrelenting bunch of used car salesmen, and goodbye freedom of movement. Censorship for saying the "wrong" thing, and internet ostracism as your penalty. Goodbye free speech and freedom. And coming soon, robots that can do virtually everything. Goodbye job, money, dignity, and freedom to advance yourself. Goodbye sovereignty.
I think this is a bit melodramatic but I understand. I was plugged into that "lifestyle" once. I lived in Silicon Valley for over 20 years, worked 16 hour days sometimes six or seven days a week. Every essence of my day was tracked by my cell phone to my various ID badges used to gain entrance into the labs and clean rooms I worked in. Years of regular blood testing due to the toxic chemicals I might have been exposed to. I sold a part of my soul to the "American Machine" which is why I'm dedicating the years I have left towards getting it back
Further, I think the skill of disagreeing with someone without creating an enemy has been lost. Like you I feel we have lost something constructive not feeling welcome to voice our opinion for fear of "backlash" or social media reprisals. Sadly, with so many Americans willing to be influenced by rumour, innuendo and uneducated conjecture, that social media is full of, this has been a runaway freight train with no signs of slowing
Luckily I was able to retire in my early 50's and made a conscious effort to "unplug" from this technology. I don't carry a cell phone, have 0% social media presence and my only use of technology is email. My life is much simpler and less stressful now However, its not the technology, its the lack of societal moral integrity and abject greed that is driving the pitfalls you mention
Goodbye humanity.
I suspect the "humanity" you speak of has been on the decline since right after WWII. Humans have the reflex action to romanticise time or ages they find comforting to them; and it is my philosophy that human beings are at their best when they struggle (like we did in the Great Depression, or the two World Wars) When bounty is plentiful, we tend to grow lazy and complacent. I'm not saying that the 50's, 60's, 70's, 80's 90's and the 2000's were "easy" for all demographics but certainly nothing compared to the Great Depression and the two world wars.
There will be a critical mass reached when the world realizes the tech that cages them has to go. The seduction of galloping technological advancement has worn out and run its course.
Not holding my breath for that one. It takes most of us decades to come to that realization, a few of the younger generation get it much sooner but in too small numbers to make an impact. The seduction of technology with all its promises appeals to the weaker side of human nature so we allow the shackles to be put on our lives willingly, often enthusiastically. I remember reading George Orwell in High School thinking "theres no way in hell this will ever happen" The more time passes the more I think of George as a visionary