Cool. Good to know. As I looked into it after you commented, it did seem like they fixed all of that with Vista, and I'd somehow missed it.
Of course, Windows won't let you format large volumes to exFAT, but you can do that on OSX, so that's not a huge issue. The bigger issue for me is certainly data integrity. I've just had way too many hosed (or partially hosed) FAT and HFS+ partitions due to an improper dismount or crash.
NTFS does not do that.
You might lose data that is in-flight (if you don't disable write caching for the volume like a good boy), but the filesystem itself is quite resilient (even NTFS has problems in this regard, but it is miles better than both HFS and FAT, despite extensions).
Apple needs a new filesystem. HFS was designed for floppies with total sizes measured in KB. All the extensions they keep adding are band-aids on a sinking ship.
In any case, if you need to use NTFS on OSX, Paragon's driver is awesome, cheap, and reliable. I've never had ANY trouble with it at all (though I'm a little conservative doing major OS updates until all my software is ready-to-go).