You might also like one of the FusionX series skins. Here's FusionX4 for example:
http://maverick07x.deviantart.com/art/JRiver-FusionX4-365712885What you might not have considered yet is this: MC is the longest running, continuously developed media player on the planet. No other media player software has been around this long; they've all come and gone while MC continued on. One of the reasons that MC has survived is that it has evolved, but it has not drastically changed itself just to "look new" or seem different.
One of the reasons that itunes is such an awful program is that it drastically changes every few versions. What you knew before gets thrown out the window every few versions. Features you liked and used are no longer available. Browsing methods change. Fundamental ways that you interact with the program are altered, added, or removed, at the whim of the developers, all so it will "look fresh and new".
MC doesn't do this. MC keeps the fundamentals the same. So you can keep using it, year after year, just like you always did. Of course MC has an incredible amount of customization available too, so you can really make it your own.
Is MC easy to use out of the box? In my opinion, it is NOT easy to use the very first time. MC is a big, deep, rich application. Sort of like AutoCAD or PhotoShop. Neither of those programs are AT ALL easy to use the first time. Yet they are some of the best programs of their types available and lauded by those in the know, year after year.
Big powerful software has a learning curve. MC's curve isn't too steep, but there's definitely a curve. Use MC for a month on the free trial. If you still don't like it at the end of the month, maybe it's not for you. But if you're like me, at the end of that month, you won't want to use anything else.
Brian.