I won another Z-wave battle today. You really have to fight these devices, its great.
The Fibaro LED controller arrived, and setting this thing up with an RGB strip was trickier than anticipated. Had to hunt around drawers for wires, power supplies, etc.
Once it was wired up, I found a button which made the strip glow green for 5 seconds then fade. I thought I had a weak power supply but checked the specs: 12v 2amps was plenty of juice. So I just hit the button over and over for five minutes to see what would happen.
Turns out, this is how you pair the device! Node 3 appeared without removing the Z-stick.
Basic_set works, Color_set works just like the Aeon light bulb with Green, Blue, and Red.
Time for a beer!