Hi
I will try to give you both information and my opinion.
1/ I am a JRiver supporter. I have bought several versions for many years and I recently became the French translator for JRiver. Of course, for free.
2/ If you want DLNA and Qobuz, you can use Minimserver (free without format and rate conversion), Lumin App (free, IOS and Android) and Bubleupnpserver to make your DNLA renderer Open Home. But you do not have a full integration of Qobuz with your library: you do not get your Qobuz favorites and purchases within the global library.
3/ Roon has a nice and full integration of Qobuz with your library, but it is expensive and lot of aspects are a kind of "spaghetti platter".
4/ What is "crazy" today is to setup a dedicated computer, configure software, tag albums, make backups, when you can listen to nearly everything with streaming.
I am 62 with 2 36 and 35 years old boys, musicians as I am, loving to listen to music, and they look at me if I were a Zombie to have a Mac Mini dedicated to music.
Streaming is a PITA for musicians and their revenues, it will have to change for this, but it is currently the way most people listen to music at home, on their phones and in their car.