Unfortunately, the problem is known.
In short, the Ravenna driver used by Merging DACs expects a professional Audio Editor (Wavelab, Pyramid, etc.); this type of program engages the ASIO driver in any case, while consumer Audio Players such as JRiver engage it only when they are in play or Pause and release it when you press stop.
So, every time you start playback, the Ravenna driver must connect with the ASIO driver, causing a delay.
(The issue do NOT affect Roon.)
The dirty remedy is to start any song, wait for the handshake and then start the desired song without going through the stop.
The neat remedy would be a JRiver setting that allows the ASIO driver to be engaged in any case...
It's clear that it's not JRiver's fault, but a byproduct of Merging being primarily aimed at the professional market, but if it were possible to add a switch for holding the ASIO driver anyway, I'd be very happy.
(For the record, I reported the problem a couple of years ago.)
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