I do follow you completely. There's rules and the business strategy that arises, content ownership and IP issues.
I think that the record companies need to genuinely demonstrate two things to their customers: 1) what expenses does the price of music help cover, and 2) what will the profit be invested in? At the moment, the overwhelmingly prevailing assumption for (1) is drugs, cars, and bling, and for (2) it's the same.
I don't think average people see creating music as very expensive---and they're right, in a way. People feel they're paying for someone's lifestyle, and that's all. They're not judging those lifestyles necessarily, it's just that they're not deriving personal value from supporting someone else's lifestyle.
This is a huge driver of music piracy, in my view, and I don't think record company managers realise it. In fact, they only make the problem worse, as they continue to sell other people's lifestyles to their customers.
'Pure' stealing is another matter of course, and other types of art marketing have their own problems. But music---popular music---I still go back to greed and bad management.
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