In an effort to simplify things, I disabled all firewalls (including SPI in the router). No firewalls are running, period. Yes, the Library Server system is on a 9 system LAN, and uses NAT via the Netgear router. Port 84 is forwarded to the specific server system, and the entire system has been placed in the DMZ of the router, although this is probably unnecessary.
The MC Server responds to remote requests via web browser. It does not respond at all to other requests from the remote MC. Since I've been unable to see it do *anythnig* in regards to MC Client to MC Server communications, I set up a network sniffer to monitor what's going on.
With the sniffer (I use Wireshark) logging, I queried the MC Server via Firefox. I got an immediate response, and downloaded the library file. Wireshark logged the entire session, no problem.
Next, I killed the browser, and launched MC. It started up with the server address/port, but showed no files, as usual. A quick check of the log showed no traffic from the remote MC to the IP of the MC Server. Using Library Manager, I opened the database link, and clicked on "Load" to load the Library, just in case MC didn't know it was supposed to do that. Again, no outgoing request of any kind to the IP of the MC Server. It is not asking for anything.
I was curious if the remote MC would communicate with anything, so I told it to check for updates. Wireshark logged all the traffic to and from 198.73.82.148, no problem.
Fired up Firefox again (with MC running) and did a "GetLibrary" again. Same result. The MC Server responded, and sent the file. Wireshark logged it all, as before.
At this point, it seems clear that the remote MC is not even trying to communicate with the server. I'm wondering if there is some plug-in or such that it may be missing.
Thanks for all the great suggestions.
Nick